5 Reasons Most People Will Never Be Happy

You need to stop with the negative thoughts.

Most people are chasing wrong things for happiness.

Happiness has become an elusive goal due to such actions. It doesn’t have to be so difficult.

Yes, it will not be easy. But with the right process, happiness can be successfully pursued.

Every person is different with customized requirements. Happiness is thus trickier than most things. People often make it even trickier with some of their actions.

The first mistake they make is they wrongly define happiness. Happiness is not a race to an end goal but a constant process. They often assign happiness with an achievement or a success instead of our day-to-day lives.

That leads to ignoring the current state of wellbeing. A pursuit for a material item delays happiness beyond acceptable intervals.

Clubbing happiness with a goal also can lead to disappointments and loss of self-confidence.

“I am not good enough” — usually comes when we fail to achieve something that we thought was important. Sometimes failure is followed by blame games.

In essence, that mindset doesn’t let them accept and enjoy life. That brings us to the first of the mistakes people make.

“I’ll be happy when I get that promotion.”

“I’ll be happy when I buy that house.”

Most people assign happiness to material achievements. While that’s not a fundamentally wrong thing to do, it’s important to understand why they do it.

I knew a guy who loved seeing his bank balance go up. He did nothing with his money but just loved logging in and seeing how much he had.

After a few years, he had a family emergency for which half of his savings was wiped out. He went into a state of depression after that. He couldn’t cope with the loss of the money and completely ignored the good his savings did for his family.

Similarly, the goal of most people should not be to get a house or a promotion. Those achievements make people happy…

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